No just say “hey it’s ( insert your name ) what’s up?”
Gaawwwd people are so scared lately. I text guys first a good portion of the time, it’s completely “a-ok”
you have to slowly break her out of her she’ll make her feel comfortable. Like give her small little complements , make her laugh! Invite her to hangout with a group of friends so it’s not so one on one you know?
It’s completely normal. If your old to enough to learn how to run a tumblr and message me your in the clear for whats considered “normal age”